Spoiler alert: the loneliest people might not be who you think.
Let’s talk about loneliness – not in a gloomy, violin-music-in-the-background kind of way, but in a real, eye-opening way that might just surprise you (and maybe even help you or someone you love).
In the latest LoveAgain.com survey, we learned new and interesting things about loneliness today. Perhaps the answers to some questions will surprise you.
The survey was conducted among LoveAgain.com users in the framework of the biggest anti-loneliness campaign #LonelinessFeelsLike. LoveAgain.com organized the social initiative in order to raise awareness of the problem of loneliness and support those who suffer from it. For that purpose, the dating website has encouraged people to share their experience of loneliness and how they overcame it to help people who feel lonely. Thousands of users opened up about how loneliness shows up in their lives. The results? Fascinating, heartwarming, and a little unexpected. Learn more about #LonelinessFeelsLike social initiative here.
Do older people feel lonely more often than young folks?
Not necessarily. In fact, it’s often not the case at all. While it’s long been assumed that loneliness mainly affects seniors, recent data is flipping the narrative. According to the conversation started by LoveAgain.com, younger generations actually report higher levels of loneliness than older adults. And even this loneliness can drag on for years and years.
Think about it – while older people may have smaller social circles, they often have stronger, long-term connections. Older singles value the ties they have and maintain them more carefully. Meanwhile, many younger people are surrounded by digital “friends” in social media but struggle with real-world emotional intimacy. Texting on Instagram or Facebook doesn’t always equal connection. And all this “networking” may have nothing to do with genuine relationships when one is in need.
Takeaway: Age doesn’t automatically determine how lonely you are. What matters more is the quality of your relationships.
Does age matter when it comes to admitting that you are lonely to people around?
This one’s interesting: older adults are less likely to describe themselves as lonely, even if they experience isolation. Meanwhile, younger users are more open to using the “L-word” – especially when it comes to sharing on social media. You may have noticed (and this applies to other aspects as well) that the younger generation is taught to voice their concerns out loud, while the older generation deals with them internally, without voicing them.
There’s a cultural shift happening where vulnerability is more normalized among Gen Z and millennials than baby boomers. But older generations? They often carry the “keep it to yourself” badge with pride.
Takeaway: Openness about loneliness varies with age. But no matter your generation, sharing what you’re feeling is always healthier than bottling it up.
Are people open with the closest in regards to a loneliness issue?
This one stings: many people don’t tell their closest friends or family when they feel lonely. According to LoveAgain.com’s users, shame and fear of judgment are the top reasons for staying silent. It’s that little voice that whispers, “Everyone else seems fine – what’s wrong with me?”
The truth is, loneliness doesn’t mean you’re broken. It’s just a signal that you crave connection – a very human need. The more we talk about it, the easier it becomes to find support.
Takeaway: Whether you’re 25 or 75, honesty is still the best policy. The people who love you want to know when you’re struggling. And it’s better for you to share.
Want to fight loneliness? Online dating helps – surprising but true
Here’s the silver lining: modern dating platforms aren’t only about finding your next great love – they can also ease loneliness. Beyond romance, the right dating site covers a variety of needs, including friendship, pen pals, long distance relationships, and finding someone with the preferences and interests that are important to you. Any location, any age, any status, the selection of singles is so large that you can meet your soulmate when you never even imagined it.
Users on LoveAgain.com say they’ve made meaningful friendships and found emotional support just by chatting, connecting, and realizing they’re not alone. Human connection – romantic or not – can heal in surprising ways, so when people become lonely, just one flirty message or a heartfelt conversation can pull them out.
And no, online dating isn’t just for the young and tech-savvy. Many older adults are thriving on LoveAgain, where mature dating is celebrated at its best.
Takeaway: Swiping right isn’t just about dates – it’s about community, confidence, and feeling seen.
Talking about loneliness is already making a difference
Thanks to the #LonelinessFeelsLike initiative, thousands of users shared personal stories about what loneliness feels like and how they’ve overcome it. From joining clubs and learning to dance again, to logging onto LoveAgain.com and starting fresh conversations – they’ve shown that healing starts with a single brave step.
This movement proves that the more we talk, the less alone we feel. And when a dating site decides to become a hub for human connection (not just romantic but emotional too), that’s a beautiful thing.
Takeaway: The conversation around loneliness is changing – and you can be part of it.
P.S. Want to read real stories of how people dealt with loneliness? Check out LoveAgain.com’s research and initiative here. It might just inspire your next move.
What This All Means: You’re Not Alone in Feeling Alone
Loneliness doesn’t discriminate by age, gender, or location. At one point or another in life, it’s safe to say that everyone has felt lonely, but don’t get hung up on it lasting forever. Whether you’re a fresh grad or a retiree, it’s okay to feel lonely sometimes. What matters is how you respond to it.
Joining a community, whether online or offline, can be your turning point. LoveAgain.com is creating space for connection in all its forms – friendship, flirting, family-forming, and everything in between.
So don’t wait for loneliness to pass. Say hi. Reach out. Start a chat. You never know who’s on the other side of the screen, feeling the same way you do.
Because love, friendship, and connection? They’re just a message away