In every relationship, each person wants to feel like they are appreciated and loved. It’s human nature to want to feel valued and it is especially true for people in a relationship because they need to feel like their partner loves them and are grateful for the things they do.
Whether you’ve been together for years or just matched on a dating site, one thing is true: women thrive on appreciation.
And we are not talking about men throwing money at expensive gifts or crafting Shakespearean sonnets (unless they’re into that). No, that’s not what we mean. Sure, there is sugar daddy dating where rich men spoil their young girlfriends with financial support, but that’s not what this case is about.
So, how to make someone feel appreciated in a commited relationship? It’s about tuning in, showing up, and doing the little things that make them feel seen and valued.
Unfortunately, while women have less of a problem with this than men, there are many women who feel unappreciated by her man. To avoid having your lady feel like you take her for granted, consider these ways to make sure your lady knows you treasure her.
Let’s walk together through five steps to make any woman – from your wife to your new online crush – feel truly appreciated, with real-life examples and easy tips.
Be a Little More Accommodating to Her
What we mean by this is take into consideration how she feels about certain things. For example, if you always leave your wet towel on the bathroom floor instead of hanging it up to dry, even though you know it annoys her, make an effort to hang the towel up. You may not think that these small things matter, but in truth, they mean a lot – all because you are making an effort to make her happy.
We get it – you’re busy. But making space for her needs, even in small ways, sends a big message: I care. She’s had a stressful day, and instead of sticking to your movie pick, you say, “You choose tonight. I want you to relax.” Boom — appreciation level up.
This doesn’t mean abandoning your own needs. It just means staying flexible, empathetic, and willing to meet her halfway. Especially in online dating, showing you’re not all about yourself can be what turns a casual chat on LoveAgain.com into a real connection.
Perform Random Acts of Kindness for Her
If you know she is having a bad day, surprise her with a glass of wine and the latest episode her favorite TV show ready to go when she walks through the door. Leave a sweet note on the seat of her car in the morning to make sure she has a good day. These small things will show her that you are thinking about her and help to make her feel appreciated.
You don’t need to wait for Valentine’s Day to surprise her. Spontaneous kindness is a quiet love language that speaks volumes. Send her a sweet “just because” message, mail her favorite snack, or Venmo her bucks with the message: “Coffee’s on me today.” Even if you’re just chatting on a dating website, small gestures – like remembering what she loves and bringing it up later – make a lasting impression.
On LoveAgain, where thoughtful messages stand out from the usual “hey sexy,” being genuine and kind makes you unforgettable.
Don’t Be Afraid to Be Affectionate
There are too many couples who don’t reach out to hold their partner’s hand for no reason at all. People tend to think the only reason you have to touch one another is to elicit some sort of sexual connection, but in truth physical touch is just another way to express gratitude and appreciation.
Of course, affection isn’t just physical – it’s emotional and verbal, too. It’s those little hugs, touches, and words that build intimacy. Instead of a rushed goodbye, look into her eyes and say, “You make my day better.” Or, if you’re still in the digital stage, send a voice note: “Just hearing your laugh made my morning.”
Many women say emotional closeness means more than any physical action. So, whether you’re cuddling on the couch or chatting on LoveAgain from two time zones away, let her feel your affection.
Tell Her!
This should be common sense! If you want your woman to feel appreciated, tell her that you enjoyed the meal she prepared for you. Tell her that you love the way she makes you feel when she sends you a good morning text. We understand that for some men it can be a challenge to express your feelings, but you can work on it by practicing saying what you want to say beforehand. You might feel silly staring at yourself in the mirror saying “Baby, I appreciate you for…,” but what is a few moments of discomfort when compared to the look of joy on her face when you tell her that you appreciate her?
Appreciation shouldn’t be a mystery. If she’s amazing, tell her. Out loud. Often.
“You handled that work thing like a boss. I’m seriously proud of you.” Or “The way you care for people is something I truly admire.”
Don’t overthink it – just be specific, sincere, and timely. Even in the early days of online dating, messages like “You really made me smile today” or “I love how passionate you are about your art” go far beyond generic flattery.
Focus on What She Does Specifically That You’re Thankful For
When you let her know you appreciate her, focus on specific qualities and actions you admire about her. Saying “I appreciate you” is good. But saying why makes it stick.
If she is a great mother, tell her that you love how she is with the children. If you love the way she laughs at your jokes, even the unfunny ones, say something along the lines of appreciating how she has no problem humoring you by laughing at all of your jokes. These things will let her know that the effort she does to make you feel special and you love her for it. And, in turn, by telling her this, you will help her to feel special, too!
“I really appreciate how you check in on me when I’m having a rough week. You make me feel supported and cared for.”
Being observant and pointing out the small wins makes her feel like you’re paying attention – and we all want to be seen.
This applies big time in online dating. When you connect with someone on LoveAgain.com, showing you’ve read her profile or remembering something she mentioned on Day One can be the difference between “next” and “let’s meet.”
Final Thoughts: Keep It Real, Keep It Warm
Making a woman feel appreciated isn’t only about grand gestures, but about consistency, presence, and emotional generosity. Showing your appreciation to a woman is relevant for both those who have been in a relationship for many years and for those who are just starting to meet on a dating platform. The effort you put into showing gratitude will always pay off.
A woman who feels appreciated is confident, open, and likely to appreciate you right back – tenfold. So go on, make her feel like the queen she is. You’ve got this.
Want to meet someone who wants to feel appreciated and knows how to return the energy? Check out LoveAgain.com for meaningful connections where you both cherish and value each other with your whole heart and soul.